Philosophy

Birth is a powerful experience. Pregnancy is a journey. As the birthing mother, where do you want this
adventure to take you? You and your partner may choose to use this wonderful, yet sometimes exhausting
event, to grow and bond as a couple. If you are alone on this road to parenthood, you may be scared and in
need of reassurance, or you may be strong, independent, and ready to take on the role with confidence.
As lives and situations vary greatly, reasons for considering a doula vary greatly also. You may be looking
for guidance in how to achieve the best birth possible for you, or simply looking for someone to be by your
side to keep you company and comfort you. My thoughts on birth are not complicated. As there are many
diverse personalities and circumstances, there are just as many "right" options in how to labor and birth.

Possibly a more important question might be ..."What is your philosophy on birth?"

If you do not already know, as your doula, I can help you discover the answer to this question. If you wish,
I can help you uncover your fears and your expectations of birth. Then, you will be able to ascertain for
yourself what your desires are and make the choices that are right for you. The birth of your baby is
distinctive and exclusively yours; it is my responsibility to cherish that fact, and help you have the birthing
experience that you desire.

Your journey through labor may be as smooth and serene as a calm lake, or it may be like the mighty
rapids carrying you by its power. One cannot predict its path, but you can prepare for it. Whether you are
one who likes to leave the decision making to others, or you are one who likes to be in control, this birth
experience is yours and the choices are yours too. Simply put, if you desire to ask for help, or lean on the
shoulders of someone with more experience, then I feel those providing the assistance, (doctors,
midwives, doulas, etc.) should be willing to offer compassionate, knowledgeable support, while respecting
your wishes.

My basic beliefs and desires for every birthing woman

I believe you

as a woman

were designed to give birth and that you embody

the strength and capacity to

achieve your birthing goals.

You have the right to decide who will provide your prenatal and birthing

care.

(midwife, family doctor,

obstetrician, etc.)

You are entitled to birth where you want to, at home, at a birthing center,

at a hospital, wherever you

feel most comfortable.

You should be free to share this life changing event with whomever you

desire

As your doula, I am there to provide

my services and

support to the

family unit.

ou have the freedom to choose whether you want to use pain medications

and/or other medical

interventions.

I believe that every woman who wants a doula should have a doula. Cost

should

not be a prohibitive factor;

therefore, Mother's Advocate Doula

Services works

on a sliding fee scale, based upon the combined income

the mother and her

partner (if applicable).

See my services page for prices and applicable lower income adjusted fees.